why relationships fail: 4 mind-blowing facts

Top reasons for relationship NOT working ? There can be various reasons but if I from my experience there are 4 big killers:

1- Cheating.

Some people get over it and forgive because they love their partner but the relationship is damaged for a long time and it is very difficult to rebuild trust. Others can’t get over it and walk away.

Interesting though, men and women perspective on cheating is different. Men consider physical (sexual) cheating as the “real” cheating, while women consider that “emotional cheating” is the biggest deal breaker.

2- Boredom

This is the silent killer..At some point every relationship is boring. When you already know well the person (no more mystery) and you have other things to look after (children..) it is difficult to entertain the relationship and maintain the same emotional high as when dating.

3- Taking your partner for granted

Just because you have been with the person for a long time doesn’t mean you don't have to make efforts to keep them loving you. Tolerance, understanding, imagination, doing things together and HAVING PROJECTS keep the relationship alive.

4- The grass is greener

You will always meet Women/Men hotter than your significant other, always ! Many men leave their spouse because they go crazy for a bimbo or a someone more fun..Well in most cases you will find later that that person that shines brighter has many flaws just like any other human being.

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