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Guy A:
He approaches a girl at the bar. The girl is dismissive. She replies ‘Hi’ but continues to look at her phone. She is polite, but mostly gives monosyllabic one-liners. She is obviously not interested in him.
Guy A is uncomfortable. He knows she is not interested, despite them having a proper conversation. He gives up. He ends the conversation politely and excuses himself.
He goes home feeling really, really dejected and sad. He starts to wonder, “Why am I such a loser? Why is it girls hate me? I am simply doomed to be alone forever.”
Guy B:
He approaches another girl at the bar. This girl, is a complete Snub. She was disrespectful to him. Before he could even open his mouth, she glares at him in that arrogant way and says, “I am not interested you loser. I am way out of your league. Why don’t you go home and watch your TV.” She turns away and joins her friends. From his vantage point, he could see that they were all starting to point and laugh at him.
Guy B goes home feeling super awesome and elated. He thinks to himself, “I’ve never approached a girl like that before! She was hot! Last time, I was always glued to my seat as I stared at my drink. I didn’t dare move an inch! What great progress I’ve made tonight!”
He starts to go through in his head what happened that night with that bitchy girl. He analyzes what he thought went wrong. He promises himself that he’d do better the next time round.
Rejection, a single loss, a piece of regret, a betrayal, a fuck-up, and the scathing words others say about you or even a tragedy are not failures.
Failure only comes when you stop trying.
It’s all about attitude and how you see things.
So get up. Get up.
And just try again.
You’ll get there. 

Relax. However you’ve thought that you’ve failed, it’s never the end, nor is it that bad. Stay chill and be happy.

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